Lazy Thursday Afternoon

What a title? I am always lazy, every afternoon of everyday. What made all the difference? Nothing. Hahaha. :) Today, I was feeling eager to get back to work. But what type of work? I don't know and I am not sure. I am so waiting for Accenture's call. I hope they do because I'd really love to come back. Ryan said they've already met the two new girls added to Blue Flame in replacement of Noda and I, two girls who left the team. :(

It's sad knowing that they've already replaced us but what the heck, it's my fault anyway. I left for selfish and immature reasons. Which are obviously so invalid. I loved the team so much and I miss them everyday. I wish I never left. So today, I made a promise to myself that if I ever get blessed again to be teamed up with that type of bunch, I will never ever leave. Awts.

I know Ryan is sad because I'm not there to be with him everyday. But I feel worse knowing that we could have been much happier had I not left. Pls pls pls. I wanna go back. I know it's not that simple and it just doesn't work that way. Aww.

This morning, Olan, Allan, Julie, and Jaypee called me just as they got out of the office. It made me miss them more. I didn't get the chance to be with people like them from my previous job. People that I am comfortable with. I regret the day I got so hurt and decided to submit my resignation letter.

I guess writing all my emotions down makes my heart feel a little lighter. I know that I should be more careful with making decisions in my life because they could totally turn everything upside down. I know I should have thought about it for a long time. All the should have's... Argh!

I am listening to Neyo's Together over and over again because the first stanza and chorus really means a lot about Ryan and I's relationship. Except the 2nd part of the song which involves cheating and being a player once. Hahaha. We weren't anything like that. I miss him now. Aww. I miss him all the time.

I had a dream yesterday. Something from the past. Plus swimming pools. Haha. This morning, I dreamed of a house party, drinking and all until it got crazy, involving murders and other horrifying stuff. What does that mean? I don't know. It only means one thing, I've been sleeping a lot.

Til here. I'll see ya next time. ;) Oh, plus Daddy left today.

Eye Hurts = I Hurt

It's been a long time. But right now, I just wanted to write something so that maybe I can let some of it out. Today, I woke up really late for my dentist appointment. Not surprisingly, she was also late. I waited for about an hour or so only to be told that maybe I should set another appointment some other day since the dentist won't be coming very soon. I was really pissed because I hurriedly got out of bed even though I was still sleepy just so I could get there when the dentist is so not coming. I knew it was gonna be a bad day ahead from the dental clinic mishap. Oh, even from the moment I woke up since I rarely wake up late for important things I should attend to.

Ryan was also running late. He was supposed to be there by 11am but he overslept. I didn't get mad because I knew he had to sleep since he was tired at work. We headed to the eye doctor to have my eye checked out because there still remains a small lump under my eyelid after my "kuliti" back in April.

I was surprised to know that I was going to be operated. I was scared and a bit shaken up because I came there for a consult. The last thing I had in mind was to go through an operation especially with the fact that my mom wasn't there with me. Ryan was but you know it's different having your mom around during those times.

It hurt a lot. But the doctor was very nice. I just hope my eye gets better. I am supposed to remove the bandage tomorrow. It's hard to deal with life with only one eye, having my left eye covered. I'm just glad that Ryan was there running back and forth to the atm machine to get me some more money because what I initially brought wasn't enough to pay for the operation bill.

My mom and I got into a fight over the phone and I feel guilty because I shouldn't have said all the things I said that hurt her a lot when I know that she is gonna suffer by being forced to pay for my bills and medications since I am jobless. It's sad because she's celebrating her 57th bday 2 days from now and I've been such a jerk.

I'll have to make it up to her. I hope things get better soon.

Now my eye hurts a bit, but I hurt even more. Awts. Til next time.

First for June

Another long *sigh*. I am so frustrated. Some have achieved while others have failed. But today, what made it worse is that they still think I'm this little girl who cannot take care of herself. I am already 21 years old. Of legal age - even to gamble. But I'm not even talking about "me-wanting-to-enter-the-casino" gamble. I want to gamble with my life. I want to take full charge of it because this is mine. I'm not a kid anymore and people just have to realize that.

I know they care so much about me but their caring tends to be suffocating. I know they aren't strict and all but what they are doing to me is making my mind go crazy with all their talk. And so I'd rather lock myself up inside my room and only go out whenever I'm hungry or thirsty. Sometimes I even eat and drink inside my room only to avoid hearing what they have to say that I already know. Sigh.

I appreciate what they are trying to do but please, let me be. I know what's right from what is wrong. So let me decide on my own. I don't need anybody telling what to do because it only numbs my ears. I've heard it all before and I don't need to hear it again. I wish to get older so they may finally let go of me.

It's not funny anymore. I just wanna be with the person I love and each time I go out of the house, people keep asking me where I'm going. If I tell them I'm going out with him, would they let me? I don't think so. Because they keep negative thoughts in their minds about where I'm going and what I'm gonna do. I don't wanna lie. I just can't tell them everything because they wouldn't understand. It's just so frustrating. Sigh.

I wanna be free. I thought I was but still I'm tied down for only God knows how long. :( This is a sad life. Being with him is the only happiness I get. I wouldn't want anyone to take that away from me. Please, I beg of you. Set me free.

Boredom

Sigh... I know there are lots of things I could do but I just can't figure out which one to start. Hence, I'm just here, lying on my bed, wasting my time. I woke up past 11am, having no plans for the day and the rest of the week since Ryan and I agreed that we're going to see each other only after four days straight. We were together yesterday and we've planned to see each other on Saturday. Also, we are going for another swim this Sunday. This time, it's going to be with my relatives from the side of my father.

Also, I am now on my 4th day of dieting. It gets harder and harder each day. Ryan and I ate some great food yesterday and I especially adored the oreo cheesecake! Yummy! After that meal, I didn't eat for the rest of the day. Today I ate 2 bites of skyflakes, 3 small pcs of chocolates, and some soup. I guess that's enough to get me through the night. :) Tomorrow will even be a greater challenge. Sigh.

I didn't get anything done today. All I did was to use the computer the entire day. I need to get a life. I need to start soon but I don't know how. Maybe I'm just scared of failing again after all those times I've tried.

Back from Bangkok, Thailand

Hey. I know this has been long overdue but now is the only time I got the chance to write. So here goes. Before I left last Friday, Ryan sent me a short story and it was great. I fell in love with him all over again. It's true what Lindsey Strauss said that she loved the mind from which Lucas' book sprang from. Because that's exactly how I felt for Ryan's writings.

Anyway, back to the trip to Thailand, we waited at the airport for more or less two hours then we left. I was so hungry on the plane, good thing they had food. The last time I went to Bangkok, there was no food on the plane. Because it was Cebu Pacific. Hahaha. :) Now it's PAL. I loved the food, can you believe that? I guess it's because I was so hungry, I could appreciate anything. Hahaha. :)

We got to Thailand and stuff at the airport went smoothly. We immediately met our tour guide, Lan, and he sent us to our specific hotels while he waited for the others who lost their baggage. Good thing we didn't lose ours. :) I was more than pleased with the hotel because the last time I was in Bangkok, I was more than disappointed. The hotel we booked sucked big time and the bed - oh! I don't even want to think about it. Haha. :)

We shopped a lot and went to see some of the golden buddha's. We also went to the leather factory which I wasn't able to visit the first time I was there. Apparently, I was doomed to return to the Gems Gallery because it's mandatory for all tourists to go there. This time, there were no irritating salespeople because they were all busy catering to the overflowing number of tourists since it's peak season. :)

We shopped a lot more. Sigh. I love shopping. It makes me feel like I have so much to spend with so little time and only so much energy to make use of to carry all the stuff we bought. Going back to the hotel means resting time/shower time/sleeping time. Then off again to shop!!!

I loved being there for shopping and a little bit of touring but I was sad because I missed him so much. That's when I realized that I never want to be that far away from him again. Someday, I want to go back there with him so we can shop together and maybe he can carry all my stuff!!! Hahaha!!! :)

Our last day arrived and as soon as I woke up, I took a bath and headed down to the buffet. Afterwhich, I rested again then went straight to the airport for our 1:50pm Bangkok time flight only to find out that it has been delayed and delayed again, and again. We left Bangkok at almost 6pm already. We wasted our entire day at the airport instead of shopping for even more cheap stuff!!!

I'm glad my time there wasn't that wasted because we met some cool girls from the Phils. as well and we instantly became friends despite our age gap. :) Their names are Mardee and Malou. :) We talked a lot and I guess it has been the start of a great friendship since we decided to keep in touch by exchanging phone numbers and e-mail addresses. :)

We arrived home past 10pm, exhausted but excited to show Lolo and Mama and Adjie the stuff we bought for them. Slept really late but excited to see Ryan the following day for our 4th Monthsary. :)

I missed him so much. I heard my mom and dad are planning to go back but I guess I won't be coming along because I don't want to be far away from Ryan again. Aww. I just love him a lot and I hope his love for me would never change - no matter what. :)

Post Bday Sentiments

Hi. It's May 14 today and yesterday was my 21st bday. I woke up past 9am, if I remember it correctly. My family and I ate out. We certainly ate a lot. :) A great number of people remembered my bday and greeted me through calls and texts. It was such an amazing feeling knowing that a lot of people still care about another person's bday. Hahaha. :)

Anyway, last May 12, I got a new fone. It's a Samsung U700. But it meant giving up my dear Nokia 6300. We had to trade it in. It made me feel really sad because we've been through a lot together. I remember giving it to my brother only to take it back after a few weeks because I couldn't live without it. It's such a nice fone. I loved it, still do. I wish it would be sold to a person who would care for it as much as I do or even more. Aww. :(

I love my new fone. It's so stylish and elegant-looking. However, in terms of ease of use, I'd prefer my old fone. The 2.0MP camera of my Nokia 6300 is also great even if I were to compare it with my Samsung's 3.2 MP camera. Plus my Nokia had an FM radio unlike my Samsung. Aww. Sad. Okay, enough about fones. I'm just really trying to air out my sentiments regarding my fones.

Okay, back to my bday. Ryan came to my house. It was nice having him around although we got into a dramatic scene before he went home. We talked about it through midnight. It had been some serious talk. I was telling him that we keep talking but there's no substance. He thought that I was becoming bored of him but that isn't true. I love being with him. I just thought that maybe we should start to spice things up.

I don't know. I couldn't even figure out exactly what I want to happen. I just wanted to reassure him that my feelings haven't changed. I love him still. And last night, he told me so many things about how he felt and it really opened up my eyes to the reality that I have been blessed with a really great guy and I should be grateful for having him in my life.

Being 21 means that I should start acting maturely. I should stop being selfish and try to look into the future as what Ryan would always tell me. I used to say that we must live one day at a time but now I guess I have to prepare for the many days after today. I just have to because I know my future would be even more beautiful if it is planned with Ryan. Aww.

From fones to bday to love and future. That's what blogging is all about. Hahaha. :) I'm leaving on Friday. Will blog about it once I get back. See ya!

Back from Laguna

Hey. As promised, I'm going to let you know what happened during our long-awaited Laguna trip. We were scheduled to meet yesterday afternoon so all four cars could leave at the same time. But not everyone arrived on time. I was irritable due to the hot weather and I feel guilty for acting so childish. Ryan was telling me that he was just so excited to be with me, still I was being like that. I so want to be with him too but the weather was just too annoying.

Anyway, we left the meeting place past 5pm already when our supposed check-in time was at 6pm, leaving us less than an hour to get to the resort. Nearing the vicinity, it started raining real hard. It was becoming hard for any driver to see the road through the windshield. I'm just so thankful I didn't bring my own car because I would have suffered so much with the traffic and the raining. It felt great to be just a simple passenger at the backseat with my guy. :)

We stopped over to get some stuff and Ryan bought yummy pastillas. :) Again, yummy!!! I think it was already past 7pm when we got to the resort and the first thing that I had in mind was to jump right into the water. I was really yearning for a swim! And this is exactly what I did. After a few minutes in the water, I went to the bathroom only to find out that I have my period. What a disaster. Such a wrong-timing! This meant I could no longer swim otherwise it will become much like the red sea, if you know what I mean. Hehe. :)

I immediately freshened up, got ready for the expected long night ahead. We slept late that's why we got up late as well. I woke up this morning and decided to swim. I didn't care if I had my period. Heck, I came here to swim. Hahaha. :) We played some pool volley. It was fun. Also, I felt so safe each time I get to deeper areas because I know Ryan is there to save me just in case. :) I feel safe in his arms. Aww. :)

After some more minutes, I got out of the pool and decided to take a real bath. Afterwhich, we slept again. Got out of bed just when we were about to leave. I arrived home at around 7pm. The trip assessment? The place was nice, the people have been nice to me as well. They're just so open about a lot of things which somehow surprised me in some ways. I even told Ryan about this. But all is good. :) Thank God they dropped me home. :)

As soon as I got to my room, I began crying. I am already missing him. What the? We were just hand in hand a few minutes ago? How in love could I be? Aww. Anyway, I'm going to see him tomorrow. Yey! Can't wait to be with him again. Aww... Alright then, I'll see you soon. :)